Too Much Heaven

By  Peter Lee

‘Time flies’ as the saying goes and I am very sure that time really flies for most of us who spend most of our daily life  balancing our work and family life. As we are fast approaching the end of year 2016, I can’t help but to think back to what I have witnessed during December 2015 which reminds me of how fragile life can be. As you would have noticed that as we arrive at the end of every  year, there will be many wedding dinner invitations and the month of December, 2015 was no different. At  the beginning of that particular month, I attended a wedding dinner where as usual guests were displaying their singing talents on stage. After the second dish had arrived, I saw an elderly couple going up on stage and belting out a song. The moment they finished singing, the elderly man collapsed on stage. Suddenly, relatives and friends rushed onto the stage. Then one man was seen to be giving the elderly man first aid resuscitation.

Apparently, his  heart had stopped. After fifteen minutes, an ambulance arrived and quickly brought him to the hospital. I was told by my friend later that he was pronounced dead on arrival at the hospital. Once the ambulance left, the master of ceremonies at the wedding informed the guests that there will be a ten-minute interval and the hall was filled with the sound of silence. After ten minutes, when the master of ceremonies re-commenced the event by inviting again guests to come up on stage and sing, I noticed that none of the elderly guests went up and I guess at that point, they must be thinking that life is really precious. With that, we were all entertained by the Gen-Y group for the remainder of the night.

Having witnessed this for the first time especially at a wedding dinner, I thought this would be the first and last incident for that year. However, this was not the case as just before the year 2015 ended, I was totally shocked and saddened by the death of my good friend who was killed in a tragic mountain biking  accident. This happened just one  week after I spoke to him. His Christmas message to me and my family was his last message. He was in his mid-forties at the prime of his career with such a bright future and I was sad to lose a good friend and at the same time see his young family lose him. I guess the good die young.

With two of these incidents, it serves as a reminder to all of us how fragile life is and death can strike anyone at any age. As I look back, I would like to think that they have gone to heaven and in a much better place than on earth. I would also like to assume that they had already got their affairs in order by leaving instructions in their will to give their wealth to their loved ones. However, I still can’t help but think about those who have not prepared their will. Assuming  that in both cases, no will was prepared and taking the example of the elderly man who collapsed on stage, I could foresee that the family may have some problems extracting his parents death certificate for the application of the Letter Of Administration (L.A.) if his parents had died a long time ago.

The application for L.A. is for those who died Intestate (that is, without a will). Under the  Malaysian Distribution Act 1958 (amended in 1997), when a person passes away without a will, the distribution will be ¼ to the deceased’s spouse, ¼ to the deceased’s parents and 1/2 to the children. These are the lawful beneficiaries who will be appointing the Administrator first  before the family can deal with the distribution. Therefore, if his family who survived him are only his spouse and children, then the extraction of the deceased parents death is crucial in order to show proof that they are no longer around and paves the way for the distribution of 1/3  to the spouse and 2/3 to the children. In the absence of the death certificate, the family will not be able to kick start the application of L.A.

By taking the second example where a person passes away without a will, leaving behind his family such as wife, minor children and parents, then the issue of renunciation may surface. For instance, if the wife feels that she should be getting all her deceased husband’s assets so that she could preserve and utilize it for the funding of her children’s well being, then she may have to ask her parents-in-law to renounce their entitlement of ¼. Now, the next question is whether the parents-in-law will do it because in some cases they may need the ¼ of their entitlement. This  kind of uncertainty  can lead to confusion and misunderstanding among family members. One of the complication of intestacy is that all assets will be shared by all the beneficiaries. So property ownership would have a possibly long list of names and even more names will be included when the family member who inherits it passes away. That’s the reason why it is always best to have your will done to avoid the hassle. As for me, after witnessing the two incidents in a short space of time, it was simply ‘Too Much Heaven’.

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